When Presence Is the Practice
... and New Journal Prompts for February
Most of the work that changes us doesn’t look impressive.
It looks like staying. Paying attention. Not performing growth.
Love isn’t grand gestures. It’s presence, the steady kind that listens, remembers, and shows up when things feel unsteady.
Grief teaches this. Burnout does too.
A heart that keeps loving after loss doesn’t announce itself. It beats anyway. It learns to live with absence instead of escaping it. That isn’t fragility. That’s emotional maturity.
Burnout isn’t rebellion. It’s your body walking away from a deal that stopped being fair. You showed up. You tried harder. Your body kept receipts, and eventually asked for renegotiation.
This is where attention becomes love.
Noticing what others miss gives it meaning. Presence gives weight to what’s small, tired, or quiet.
This work won’t look like progress.
It looks like listening without fixing.
Staying without certainty.
But over time, it changes how you live, with yourself, with loss, with what remains.
Quietly.
Love isn’t grand gestures, it’s presence.
It’s the soft attention to the invisible marks left by life’s battles.
True intimacy is steady, when everything else shakes.
Love listens.
Love remembers.
Love shows up.
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The Heart That Keeps Loving After Loss
It beats anyway, even when it feels hollow.
Absence becomes something you live with, not escape.
Memory whispers names you carry, but don’t say.
This is emotional maturity, grief that didn’t turn into a closing
A heart that loves on, quietly, without apology,
not because it’s easy, but because it’s true.
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Burnout Is Your Body Walking Away From a Bad Deal
You honored the contract.
You showed up when it hurt.
You tried harder.
Your body kept receipts.
And one day, it said no.
Not rebellion. Renegotiation.
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Attention Is a Form of Love
You notice a small thing.
No one else does.
That doesn’t make it insignificant.
Your witness gives it meaning.
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I’ve been reading you for some time now. You resonate with me on that inarticulate part of me that yearns for expression. Thank you.
Attention is a form of love. I’m trying my best to give that attention to myself and others. Thank you for this. I loved it x